I once told my friend (who's a girl) that I don't like girls who don't wear dupatta. (This is something which I don't tell everyone). She appreciated my thought and since then she started wearing dupatta even if I had no chance to see her. However, when things turned a bit sour between us, she deliberately walked around without dupatta, causing more anguish and hurt in my heart. Oddly enough, she told one of our common friends (again a girl, that doesn't know my opinion about dupatta) that she did this (no dupatta thing) just to hurt me.
This is just a small thing, yeah, I know. Wearing a dupatta or not is a woman's full freedom. I don't have a problem with that. But, knowing pretty well that the other person gets hurt because of our actions and still doing it willfully.... what's the deal with that?
"தெரியாம கூட செஞ்சுடாதே... எனக்கு ரொம்ப வலிக்கும் "-னு சொன்ன பிறகும் வேண்டுமென்றே அதையே செய்து காயப் படுத்துபவர்களை என்ன செய்வது?
Moral of the Story :
Its better that a person doesn't reveal himself/herself completely to others, especially their closest ones like lover, wife, husband, dear friends etc. The more the person confides, the other person gets to know the weakness and soft-spots. Their mind calculates a formula for the other person's actions. When things go wrong between the two individuals, one hurts the other big time by deliberately doing things that the other person hates.
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